Big List of Vegan Sex and BDSM Things!


This has been so long in the making/ procrastinating! Really, since I began this, children have been born, turned into toddlers, and learned the truth behind their favorite holiday mascots. I’ve come to terms with the fact that this is an ever-changing, ever-growing list (thankfully), and I just need to publish now and add more later. So let’s do this! *glitter-shooting finger guns*

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Lubescouting: How to Find the Good Stuff

This #lubescouting adventure took me to drug, grocery, and discount stores, where I found lube that comes with a meal voucher and movie rental, $1 lube, and lube that promises “unmatched” and “supercharged orgasmic” pleasure as well as “pure sexcitement”. Sadly though, I found very few lubricants that I would actually feel safe using. Good lube is lube that will be more beneficial than harmful. With some of the main ingredients in a lot of lubricants producing effects that can be harmful, irritating, or cause allergic reactions, it’s important to find the good stuff.

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A Merry Fisting Day to All, and to All a Good Night: Five Fisting Tips

With such a momentous holiday upon us, I figured I would start this blog off with a post in celebration! So, Happy International Fisting Day!

A Merry Fisting Day to All, and to All a Good Night: Five Fisting Tips

October 21st is the third annual Fisting Day, an event co-founded by two of my favorite people in the sex industry, Courtney Trouble and Jiz Lee, in response to the stigma surrounding fisting in the porn industry and the mimetic sentiments outside the adult industry. Here’s a lovely photo of them together! Courtesy of QueerPorn.tv. So let’s fuck the shame and begin the celebration!

A lot of people I encounter think of fisting as some astonishing act of kinky contortionism, exclaiming, “How does that fit in there!” And they’re kind of right. Fisting is some Cirque du Soleil type penetration, and for that reason, it requires a lot of practice and exploration.

This post isn’t a how to. I feel like a long text post is not the best way of presenting that information. This post is instead dedicated to all the fist-curious individuals as a guide of what to consider when considering fisting. Here are my five necessities for a successful fisting experience.

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